Lessons from an Indian trip – It’s a small, small world! (1)

I first visited India over 20 years ago. When I first stepped out of the plane in Bombay (now called Mumbai), I had a culture shock. I felt that I’d just come out of a “time-machine” into the past. Everything around me – the airport, the cars, telephones – reminded me of the things that I’d seen in my childhood.

I was born and bred in colonial Singapore. In my childhood, Singapore was a sleepy hollow. The only “industries” that we had were our port and the Naval Base (for the British Navy). After our independence in 1965, Singapore developed at a furious pace to become a modern city-state. When I made my first trip to India in mid 80’s, Singapore was already modernized. In fact, whenever I travelled to most other Asian countries during that time, there were many adjustments to make – there was the need to bring packs of tissue paper, worry about the availability of clean drinking water, forget about having any contact with family for most of the duration of the trip, etc.

A few months ago, when I was invited to visit India I knew that there was absolutely no need to worry about all these things – after all, even in the remotest villages of Cambodia I know that I can get a signal to call home on my auto-roam cell phone, and have a wide selection of chilled bottled-water to buy at bargain prices.

Eating in modern India
Eating in modern India

However when I landed in Hyderabad Airport, I was pleasantly surprised to discover that not only were my expectations met but that they were completely exceeded. Yes, there were still signs of “old” India around but there were also signs that “new” India had all the potential to surpass us.

The airport was new. It was well designed. It was well maintained and run. Frankly, it was better than almost all the airports that I’d been through in the West. A quick look at the prices in the airport, also informed me that one needn’t have to pay and arm and a leg for food or transport. I’ve always marvelled at how people complain of pick-pockets in other countries and forget that the biggest “pick-pockets” that empty our pockets on most trips are not the one-off criminal but the legalized, systematic, over-priced services that we have to pay for in the “developed” countries!

Indian family reunion
Indian family reunion

As I entered my host’s Korean car at the airport and took the smooth ride into the city on the longest fly-over (overpass) in Asia into the city of Hyderabad, I realized that the world is indeed small. As I dozed off to sleep in the car, I hardly felt that I’d left home!

I believe that if we leave our prejudices aside, the whole wide world is now really just our backyard. The barriers that we had to cross to visit other countries are now only those that are found in our minds!

India – the land of contrasts

I’m writing this blog in India. I’ve been in India for the past 10 days and I’ve visited 5 different towns/cities in the state of Andhra Pradesh. India is indeed a land of contrasts.

I landed in the spanking new airport in the high-tech city of Hyderabad. We landed at midnight but the airport was filled with Indians welcoming their loved ones home. Most of my fellow travelers on the Silkair flight over from Singapore were Indians who were working in Singapore returning home for their vacation. They were mostly well-educated or highly skilled workers who were making invaluable contributions to the economy of Singapore. Many were busy on the flight working on their laptops or busy watching movies on their iPods.

As we left the high-tech airport with its high-tech crowds, we drove into the city It was late at night but I could already sense the vast difference between my fellow-travelers and the poor Indians who were walking bare-footed on the pot-holed streets and sleeping on the pavements.

During the course of my 10-day stay (the purpose of which was to visit the families of many of my Indian friends in Singapore) I had the privilege to visit their villages and their homes. The vast majority of homes of my Indian friends that I visited were simple Indian homes – some of wood and attap roofing, some simple tiny bare brick structures, Occasionally, I would visit an impressive two-storey new building built with the money that was sent home from Singapore. I was sure that if I had another occasion to visit them in the near future, most of those simple homes would be replaced by nicer homes funded by Singapore dollars.

I had made friends with so many of them in Singapore but did not fully realize the backgrounds from which they came. One home that I visited was so bare – the doorway was so low I had to bend to half my height to get in. I met the mother of my friend in Singapore. I was told that he was a rickshaw-puller in his little village until a kind neighbor lent (or gave, I’m not sure) money for him to go to a job agency and take a test to come to Singapore to work in a shipyard. Today, he is sending money to feed his family and hopefully his younger brother will be taking his test shortly to join him in Singapore. Who knows how that little village will change, just because of the act of one kind man.

As I thought about the successful Indians and the poor Indians. I realized that there was really one difference – one had the chance to get an education or a job and the other didn’t.

This is what Goducate is all about – giving chances to the helpless!